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6 Secrets to keep your Relationship with your Man “HOT”; building a BETTER SEX life; making your Man obsessed with your bedroom performance and Deeply Sexually Attracted to you.
Let’s get right down to it.
As a woman, here’s how most of us think after we finally give that guy what he wants the most- SEX!
We go: “It’s all great! Now that I’ve given him what he wanted, he will stick around. He will stay fully committed to me, fall madly in Love and then we’ll live happily ever after in La-la land ….”
Can you seriously imagine this scenario playing out that way? Not a chance. If anything, the man you really like now acts all weird and is a bit distant now. Maybe he is even disappointed with how things turned out. Yes, you aced the art of flirting, seduction, and romance, but when it was sex time, you couldn’t give him his ideal fantasy. Maybe you yanked him away from his sexual fantasies a bit too much.
Now, you ask, what do you do? How do you keep the sexual drive running?
Stay with me, okay? Let’s take a little trip back in time and see if we can improve and ace this risky situation with the Man you like.
You know you are ready to be intimate with the Man you like and possibly love. So, what actions should you take to make sure he becomes “obsessed” and deeply attracted to your love?
Let me let you in on 6 juicy secrets.
SECRET 1: Do some kinky research.
Now, majority of Men aren’t overly shy about expressing their sexual quirks, no matter how weird they may sound to you. If your Man is the shy type, that is, not inclined to be so upfront, it is still possible to get his sexual fantasies out of him.
If your Man loves sexy lingerie, sensually indulge his eyes. If he likes talking dirty, surprise him. Borrow a leaf from his book. Whisper naughty things into his ears. Make him blush; turn his face hot red when you use sexually intoxicating lines from books or movies.
This is not a walk in the park. Spend some time to think more about what your Man fantasizes about. Take the next step by surprising your Man with that fantasy. Only then will you be able to connect with your Man on a deeper level sexually.
SECRET 2: Be slightly aggressive.
Let’s be honest, many women are either too shy or not very confident when it comes down to taking action in the bedroom. No wonder you’d find that most men who frequently express their hottest desires do so with women who are more confident, such as porn stars, pole dancers, and so on.
Now is just not the time to feel prudish. Move away from the “old school” ways of having Sex. Be confident in yourself; appreciate your sexuality. Be interesting and open to trying different positions, most definitely the dominant position. Show your Man just how amazingly hot and how madly passionate you can be for him. Try springing up sex on him in the shower!
Another fun option is to show him your kinky side and excite him with your willing desires on that special camping trip.
SECRET 3: Always want more.
The truth, it is very rare to hear men complain that their Women “always demands sex”. The reverse is the case, honestly. Truth is, majority of men complain that their Women lose interest in sex over time. Most men enjoy indulging in Hot fantasies, but their Women are just happy with the same old boring sex. This puts a damper on your Man’s sexual fantasies.
Women, here is a myth I would like to debunk.
MYTH: It is the Man’s place to properly romance, arouse and get his women interested in Sex again. Wrong. This is a Woman’s way of thinking- not a Man’s normal line of thinking …
Ladies, know this: these actions and lack of interest are not going to help you ace the bedroom nor make your Man deeply sexually obsessed with you.
If you want to build a better Sex life, make your Man obsessed with your bedroom performance. This results in your Man being deeply and sexually attracted to you. You need to feed and boost his ego! Give him that unforgettable longlasting steamy sex that he has always craved for. Take note of what turns your Man on. Act them out by seeking his pleasure, both in quantity and quality.
If he is a decent Man whose deep desire is sex and sexual connection, chances are he will reciprocate the exact same attention, ensuring you get the same pleasure too.
The Biggest mistake any WOMEN can make is going for days or weeks without sex, thinking it’s “all good” because your Man hasn’t complained. Quite the opposite, really. Chances are he is all grumpy, moody, frustrated and irritable about it- he’s just not saying anything to you. Identify your Man’s needs and deepest desires. Connect with your Man on a deeper level by fulfilling his needs!
Boost your confidence in the bedroom activities. Be creative: spice things up, wear sexy underwear, bring sex toys into the mix. Whisper encouraging words in your Man’s ear. Tell your Man how “HOT” he is in bed! Surprise your Man by joining him in the shower. Don’t shy away. Go that extra mile; give your Man a sexual life much better and quite unlike what other women could give him.
SECRET 4: Torture your Man with longer foreplay …
Your Man may not ask you to extend foreplay and fool around with him. In our beliefs and society, foreplay is mostly seen as Men giving Women their “due”, slowing down the journey to orgasm. As a result of society’s perception, Men’s ego, and guy issues, women never even think of such a simple idea!
Make Foreplay Longer!
Be exciting, especially if your Man is shy. Be a little aggressive; slow down the foreplay with your Man without asking his permission. Create excitement a sexual desire in your Man by teasing him longer, “edging” your Man towards a mind-blowing orgasm… then stop instantly. Start all over again. Add something else that makes your Man melt with desire.
Men, like we Women, are usually very sensitive around their neck, ears, thighs, and belly. Vary the tension and pressure of your touch and kiss. Watch your Man’s face, eyes, and body. See how your Man reacts to you, then respond with more intense foreplay. Just when your Man can’t take anymore of your extended intense foreplay, go for your Man’s genitals and give him the finish he will be bragging about for days. Just so you know, your Man will be super eager to finish that he most likely beg you! That’s always a sign you’ve done it right!
SECRET 5: Don’t Fall into Jealousy trap.
Hold back from being intimidated by your Man’s interest in other women. It is bound to happen. I know it may be unpleasant and awkward to think of your Man checking out another Woman. It is human nature for a man to look, just like it is human nature for us women to check out other men.
Allow your Man the freedom to look and be himself. After all, you were also drawn to his sexual, masculine confidence and energy. Why suddenly limit or suppress it? Just because your Man looks at other women, it doesn’t mean that he is going to cheat.
Have fun with each other. Be spontaneous. Great Sex starts with intimate communication – nothing should ever be censored or held back due to embarrassment. Use your feelings, taboo fantasies and desires to making your sex life twice as hot with your Man!
SECRET 6: Talk about everything …
Discover activities you both can enjoy and be comfortable with.
Couples make this big mistake in their relationship: not talking openly about sex, sexual pleasures, and desires. Hence, they miss out on deeper levels of fulfilling intimate conversations and connections.
Discovering each other’s “limits” is all part of the negotiating process, that is, getting to know each other’s sexual fantasies. Both of you have the choice of saying yes, no or maybe. You get to decide which is fun, talking about your sexual options over, laughing, blushing and negotiating.
You might be surprised to discover that you both answered “maybe” to a few sexual desires or kinks!
Ladies, women who follow these secrets are those kinds of women that men love, women they can easily become sexually obsessed with; one who matches him in the bedroom when it comes to activities, imagination and daring.
Sex isn’t something you put up with or “give him” as a reward. Sex is something you both enjoy because it’s all part of human nature; you NEED that intimacy with each other. Women have peculiar needs for sex just the same way a man does. Keep those love chemicals and hormones flowing, make more love instead of war.
Build a better sex life. Only then will you be able to build healthy, loving relationships.